Friday, May 28, 2010

Invite Blues?

You might say that A2Z photo booths has seen a few weddings. We have seen everything from prom dresses to biker gear on various guests, and well we are usualy wearing black and white.



So what do you wear as a guest at a wedding? Being under dressed is awkward and overdressing is just plan uncomfortable. So how do you decide what is appropriate for the wedding you have been invited to attend?

If you receive an invitation with lace and calligraphy that usually indicates that you should take the extra time to match your shoes to your outfit and add a little makeup. For most events you will not be able to reuse your prom dress or other brides maids dresses no matter how fancy the invitation looks.

The new and convenient way to send out invites is on Facebook. Lots of people do it and it is cheap and easy. You won't usually have to go out of your way to dress up for these kinds of celebrations. Taking a brush through your hair and making sure there is no unmentionables (dirt, spit-up, food and wrinkles) on you blouse will suffice. Just remember it is a wedding reception and you shouldn't roll out of bed and walk into the party.

There are also the photo shop masterpieces that have pictures, text and swirly graphics. These invites are adorable, personal and slightly confusing! Mostly because happy couples are usually in a grassy area in jeans and t-shirts looking all "In Love." But that tells you nothing about how you should dress because you can be sure the bride and groom sure won't be sporting jeans! So what do you do? When in doubt go simple yet classy. Black pants and a nice blouse or a nice dress will get you through any event unscathed.

If you are male or are trying to dress a male so he looks appropriate; (Good Luck!) Remember that most men look good in black slacks and a button up shirt, no tie. It's a fact that simple is always better for men, but make sure that he leaves his jeans, work boots, and holey t-shirt at home.

Just remember not to go overboard! You don't want to out dazzle the bride. (At least not on her special day!)

Oh & BTW sometimes the brides are super smart and well prepared, they put the recommended attire right on the invite!



And if all else fails call the bride or someone in the bridal party. It never hurts to ask!



~Mari~

1 comments:

Darlene Servolini said...

Great advice! I've always wondered, "what are we suppose to wear??" Thanks for the info. :)